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    Quote Originally Posted by Tallulah View Post
    I have decided I want to meet (a mature) ENFJ dude. I don't know if I know any.

    Edit: I don't know if I know any ENFJ dudes, not mature ones. :-P
    Ummm, there are some ENFJ dudes on this fourm including myself.

    Mature can mean different things to different people, but I'm very mature in some ways and not as mature in other ways.

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    Elaborating on the "vibe" comment: my sister said it was a preceding "force", like a different resonance. It may have to do with exposed Fe before Ni. She said it was all the brute force of an ENTJ but with the deep feeling/empathic nature of an INFJ. Does that make anymore sense?
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    Sounds good, just need to find a known ENTJ and provoke it to see their brute force. Thanks for the answer Pink.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PinkPiranha View Post
    Elaborating on the "vibe" comment: my sister said it was a preceding "force", like a different resonance. It may have to do with exposed Fe before Ni. She said it was all the brute force of an ENTJ but with the deep feeling/empathic nature of an INFJ. Does that make anymore sense?
    Yea it does. I will hit you very hard with a very soft fluffy pillow and push you hard into a wall that is made of soft kindness.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yloh View Post
    Yea it does. I will hit you very hard with a very soft fluffy pillow and push you hard into a wall that is made of soft kindness.
    Indeed. I also like to strangle people with the soft hands of understanding while berating them with love.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PinkPiranha View Post
    Indeed. I also like to strangle people with the soft hands of understanding while berating them with love.
    ^ lolz. This is the picture of a mature ENFJ!

    On a side note, I wonder how ENFJs evolve over the years....that perhaps the main characteristic of the ENFJ which is "giving" (the false abundance of nurturance) evolves as they mature/age...cause I wonder if 'giving' is sustainable in the long run?

    I read somewhere that to move from dependence on approval to knowledge of personal strength to meet one's own needs, it usually requires personal loss (which is bound to happen at some point). And through this likely deep hurt / depression / introspection, it can lead to a more accurate self-assessment and understanding of what is being asked of us by others. Wish we had an older ENFJ on this board....

    Hmm... anyway, just a random thought (typical ENFJ )
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    Quote Originally Posted by g_vartan View Post
    I read somewhere that to move from dependence on approval to knowledge of personal strength to meet one's own needs, it usually requires personal loss (which is bound to happen at some point). And through this likely deep hurt / depression / introspection, it can lead to a more accurate self-assessment and understanding of what is being asked of us by others. Wish we had an older ENFJ on this board....
    Oh god. Nuuuuu!!! If this hasn't already happened to me, please, keep it away Lord. It makes perfect sense though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PinkPiranha View Post
    Indeed. I also like to strangle people with the soft hands of understanding while berating them with love.
    Feel the awesome lethality of our suffocating love!! BE LOVED, DAMMIT!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Keps Mnemnosyne View Post
    Sounds good, just need to find a known ENTJ and provoke it to see their brute force. Thanks for the answer Pink.
    I love you. "provoke it"...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Yloh View Post
    I'm wondering if other ENFJs can be very detail oriented at times. Most of the time I do tend to forget the details, but there are certain subjects that I pay attention to every little detail and remember them. Its kind of weird, I have a selective detail memory.

    Anyways, is this because I could be a weak N and have some Si, or is it because of tertiary Se?
    ENFJs are the only Ns I've seen described in any profile as good with details. I've noticed it about the people I think are ENFJs too. I wonder if they just develop their eye for detail more than most Ns because they're more motivated to because of Je (the 'get things done' function) being dominant. If that's the reason, it should be true of ENTJs as well, but I don't know any of them very well.

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