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    i absolutely love you guys. my best friend for 17 years is ENFJ and i'd trust anything to her... i'd do anything for her, too.

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    I'm learning to understand the ENFJ better I think. A guy who I used to think was really false, I've come to appreciate as a pretty good person actually, since I got to know him.
    "Of course we spent our money in the good times. That's what you're supposed to do in good times! You can't save money in the good times. Then they wouldn't be good times, they'd be 'preparation for the bad times' times."

    "Every country in the world owes money. Everyone. So heere's what I dont get: who do they all owe it to, and why don't we just kill the bastard and relax?"

    -Tommy Tiernan, Irish comedian.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tcda View Post
    I'm learning to understand the ENFJ better I think. A guy who I used to think was really false, I've come to appreciate as a pretty good person actually, since I got to know him.
    Goooood. Come to the dark side
    Hang on traveling woman - Don't sacrifice your plan
    Cause it will come back to you - Before you lose it on the man


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    Nice to meet you, Yvonne

    I'm in NC, Unkind. I'd let you drive down and use my INTP torture room on tcda, but gas prices are still so bad.
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    Dramatic>Sensitive>Serious

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    I've just made a 21 year old ENFJ girl cry without doing or saying anything particlarly nasty or disturbing. She is kind of used to charm everybody around her, and I simply didn't agree with one of her judgements, which made her... I don't know, sad? I don't really understand what happened, lol. ENFJs seem to have exactly the opposite effect on me than on other people.

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    Making people cry amuses you?
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    What makes you say that? The "lol" part? I'm laughing on my inability to understand people.

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    Our inter-personal interactions are particularly important to us, and personal values are extremely close. I could easily see something you said directed at an action very personal to her upsetting her much more than anything disturbing ever could.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Litvyak View Post
    What makes you say that? The "lol" part? I'm laughing on my inability to understand people.
    I was always confused as hell about this from the other end. The impersonal; the tangible; the rational, never phased me beyond a very iron willed steel balls frustration that translated immediately into determination... but sharing a belief & having it crushed was always devasting because it was a reaction based on a person... Something i find meaning in. And someone I found meaningful enough to share it with. I see a worth in everyone, & its often ridiculously virtuous. But, while i may appear to throw out 'trust' to too easily or not easily enough, telling someone a 'judgment' Ive made is an act of vulnerability. To cry at a reaction would be both an indication of how much the idea meant to me & the importance of the person I'm telling. In my mind, I'd feel complimented, not confused. And there's no doubting we need it sometimes.
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    Just wanted to add a comment

    My ex-girlfriend (who I fell very much in love with) tested as an ENFJ when she took the test a couple of weeks ago. She is easily one of the sweetest, gentlest souls on this planet. She gives so much of herself to everyone around her and very rarely does she recieve acknowledgement for her generousity and her compassion. As such, I always make it a point to remind her what an amazing person she is.

    Her and I aren't together anymore (not because I don't care about her anymore, but because of distance. She lives on the other side of the continent from me) but I still can't imagine what my life would be without her.

    You ENFJ's a truly amazing bunch and the world is blessed to have you. I hope you remember that the next time you have a bad day
    "The man who is swimming against the stream knows the strength of it."
    ― Woodrow Wilson

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