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    It seems really casual and she doesn't sound like the best catch (kind of manipulative, likes to string people along). I really don't get a great vibe from her. If all you want is sex and fun, go for it but if you want something more serious, I wouldn't pursue anything w/ the girl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pitseleh View Post
    It seems really casual and she doesn't sound like the best catch (kind of manipulative, likes to string people along). I really don't get a great vibe from her. If all you want is sex and fun, go for it but if you want something more serious, I wouldn't pursue anything w/ the girl.
    I wanted sex and fun but didn't get any.

    But yes I think you're right about her, though to be fair to her in this instance, neither of us pretended to be seriously dating or anything.

    Interesting thing though is that I'm pretty sure she is ENFJ yet most ENFJ's I have described these events to, have disliked her.
    "Of course we spent our money in the good times. That's what you're supposed to do in good times! You can't save money in the good times. Then they wouldn't be good times, they'd be 'preparation for the bad times' times."

    "Every country in the world owes money. Everyone. So heere's what I dont get: who do they all owe it to, and why don't we just kill the bastard and relax?"

    -Tommy Tiernan, Irish comedian.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tcda View Post
    I wanted sex and fun but didn't get any.

    But yes I think you're right about her, though to be fair to her in this instance, neither of us pretended to be seriously dating or anything.

    Interesting thing though is that I'm pretty sure she is ENFJ yet most ENFJ's I have described these events to, have disliked her.
    There's a good chance that she is ENFJ... just a very manipulative one (they can feel very oily).

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    Avoid her.

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    So in other words if an ENFJ talks about you like that, she is not really interested?
    "Of course we spent our money in the good times. That's what you're supposed to do in good times! You can't save money in the good times. Then they wouldn't be good times, they'd be 'preparation for the bad times' times."

    "Every country in the world owes money. Everyone. So heere's what I dont get: who do they all owe it to, and why don't we just kill the bastard and relax?"

    -Tommy Tiernan, Irish comedian.

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    It basically sounded like you are one of her many little play things... you're dispensable to her. For example, she is comparing you to all her other suitors and finds it humorous that the Latinos are mostly hitting on her. That just reeks of possibly playing social games down line because she KNOWS that so many others want to be w/ her and finds it amusing. You could definitely pursue her more but I doubt she has much genuine interest in you. You are mostly likely going to get played by the girl. Sorry for the harsh assessment but that is seriously the vibe I got off of her.
    Most ENFJs (if they liked you) I reckon would be like: "I met this awesome Argentinean guy named TCDA. We really clicked! " We would sing your praises. ENFJs tend to be VERY deliberate so if we like you, you are most likely going to know after a bit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pitseleh View Post
    It basically sounded like you are one of her many little play things... you're dispensable to her. For example, she is comparing you to all her other suitors and finds it humorous that the Latinos are mostly hitting on her. That just reeks of possibly playing social games down line because she KNOWS that so many others want to be w/ her and finds it amusing. You could definitely pursue her more but I doubt she has much genuine interest in you. You are mostly likely going to get played by the girl. Sorry for the harsh assessment but that is seriously the vibe I got off of her.
    Most ENFJs (if they liked you) I reckon would be like: "I met this awesome Argentinean guy named TCDA. We really clicked! " We would sing your praises. ENFJs tend to be VERY deliberate so if we like you, you are most likely going to know after a bit.
    Nah harsh assesmment is what I need! I am young (ish - :s) male INTP; meaning, I need these things spelled out! I don't trust my intuition on these issues either as it can get mixed with "worries" and "wishes".

    I had kind of gathered all along that we were both just having a bit of casual playing around though. She did at the time invite me out quite a lot at the time; but then after I went to club with her and some of her friends, and got into an argument with her (male) friend, stupidly. After that she literally never spoke to me again!

    I guess what I'm asking is pretty pathetic, but: did I have a chance back then of getting some action? Sorry to be vulgar but, that's my question. And yes, I do even disappoint myself with my shallowness.
    "Of course we spent our money in the good times. That's what you're supposed to do in good times! You can't save money in the good times. Then they wouldn't be good times, they'd be 'preparation for the bad times' times."

    "Every country in the world owes money. Everyone. So heere's what I dont get: who do they all owe it to, and why don't we just kill the bastard and relax?"

    -Tommy Tiernan, Irish comedian.

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    TCDA, it amazes me how irresociallyresponsible our peeps are. I'm sorry dude.
    Love is the point.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tcda View Post

    I guess what I'm asking is pretty pathetic, but: did I have a chance back then of getting some action? Sorry to be vulgar but, that's my question. And yes, I do even disappoint myself with my shallowness.
    LMAO. you're hilarious. FYI, I'm not judging you. Doesn't almost everyone want to sex once in awhile? You might have had a chance but I really don't know what her intentions were... so who knows?

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    Quote Originally Posted by tcda View Post
    ...oh yeah, in that culture "fair haired and blue eyes" is considered attractive
    In almost all [Western] cultures, tcda, "fair-haired and blue-eyed" is considered attractive, sometimes regardless of whether or not the person with these physical characteristics are actually, you know, attractive.

    Wish people would get original :rolli:

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