I have a serious weakness for them! A charismatic, communicative NT is a beautiful thing!
I'm married to one........and he's been great at helping me manage the ENFP paranoia & hypersensitivity with his detached manner. I'm a lot tougher than I used to be.
You gotta be competitive though to survive & earn their respect! I vacillate between engaging them on their arguments and poking fun at them personally.