I'm an ENFJ guy who found myself frustrated in highschool at times when surrounded by artisans, my best mate was an ISTP - exact opposite to me, and that presented some interesting differences, that have kind of gradually seen us drift; not that he'd notice coz he's not particularly socially attuned.
All my girlfriends bar one have been ESFP's, who i was originally attracted to for their confidence, and they enjoyed my sickening romanticism to an extent. But I've recognised a pattern in which I soon found them overbearing outwardly and yet really insecure underneath, particularly about their physical appearance.
Just wondering if anyone else has had similar social experiences? In highschool it was particularly hard to be the 'real me' simply because the more abstract concepts I was ready to explore weren't really socially acceptable, as in - no one cared. So I've long played the social chameleon, pretending to be, what I recognise now, as all sorts of personality types!