Hello folks! So I've posted the same question to SJ's. And I posted a similar post about 'how to make an ISFP fall in love with me' and well, not only were there not a lot of replies -- that whole venture did NOT WORK OUT. (P.S. when an ISFP tells you 'he's through', he means it! Hahaha...)
Then I realized, when it comes to love, dating, and related "adult things" -- how do other NF's do it?
Just a few questions to get the ball rolling on this. And NF's I KNOW (at least the E's) all love talking about ourselves so don't be shy!
What do you look for in a significant other?
Do they HAVE to be "Mr/Mrs Righ" or will "good enough" do? Do you just sometimes need to be with SOMEONE (anyone?)
Do you have 'friends with benefits' and if so, how do you determine who you'll do this with and how does this relationship play out?
Are you a traditional 1 person at a time monogamous type or do you play the field or have ambiguous relationships or else nontraditional arrangements with people?
How to decide when to step it up from casual dating to something else?
Are you a tease? A flirt? Do you flirt with intent or just for fun?
How do you get out of relationships?
Are you usually calling the shots?
Can you tell when you first meet someone that they are Dating/Long Term/ Fun material?
Do you ask people out or make it clear that you want to be asked out or are you very sly about it or does being asked out catch you off guard?
Even if you two had great chemistry, are there any deal-breakers?
And for relationship questions, this is all assuming that you both are attracted to and like each other of course.
Yes, lots of questions but all pointing to the basic question: How important in dating/love/sex to you and how do you meet your needs? What is your criteria for determing if someone is 'longterm' material and how do you get there?
Thanks in advance! Aside from personal gain I'm very curious to hear all the responses! I'll chime in after others have spilled their guts.