I have some history with ENFJ's. Dated one for two years. (Roller coaster craziness. He wasn't a good person) and one of my best friends is one. I also have an acquaintance that is an ENFJ (male) and he is absolutely in love with my ENFP friend. He's so smitten. It's sort of sad because ENFP has told him that they're just friends, although I suspect that ENFP is still "involved" with him. Something I don't agree with but it's not my business. Yet, his loyalty to her is almost...I don't know...I kind of want to slap him sometimes! Like, "wake up!" He's got tunnel-vision and will not even entertain the thought of being or dating someone else. It's like he's addicted.