I don't really see what's so asshole-ish about the way the people in MA are. Sure it's less Fe-laden than some places, but no one is dying from lack of care for their feelings. I guess it's about your expectations of people. I'm not expecting anyone to coddle me, so I don't see the way of behaving as horrible.
That was a joke. Obviously, that's why there was a wink. Your intuition need a little help, my favorite avy friend?I know what you're thinking Lauren..and no. There are no hidden meanings. No insinuations hidden in the message^.