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    2 questions concerning 1 different dimension of thinking:

    1. Why do INFJs only answers your text messages, if you sent em at the most cool time possible ?

    2. And why then after you fucked up the cool moment they dont reply ?

    Do they have the money issues in their back of their head, as said in the other thread, how a well planned life at spending every cent will bring us freedom ?
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    and yet another wierd infj thread.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EcK View Post
    and yet another wierd infj thread.
    We can't escape them. ever. People must have answers. and answers NOW.

    1. I stopped answering most text messages because I am asleep when they are sent.

    2. This infj has unlimited texting, but texting takes time, effort, etc. I'm burned out on people right now.
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    Quote Originally Posted by entropie View Post
    1. Why do INFJs only answers your text messages, if you sent em at the most cool time possible ?

    2. And why then after you fucked up the cool moment they dont reply ?

    Do they have the money issues in their back of their head, as said in the other thread, how a well planned life at spending every cent will bring us freedom ?
    Cool time for you or cool time for them? Maybe it's mood related? The better the mood, the quicker the answer. Or the messages need some time to be reflected upon and constructing the most appropriate reply takes time and some effort. Being in a not so stellar mood might postpone all that.

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    And what about the sender of the message, who cares for him ?
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    Quote Originally Posted by entropie View Post
    And what about the sender of the message, who cares for him ?
    The sender. Or the receiver when they're in the mood for caring about others than themselves. That's life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sky is BLUE! View Post
    The sender. Or the receiver when they're in the mood for caring about others than themselves. That's life.
    Isn't it rude to not reply? Or is that okay inside one's introverted world..nevermind anyone else? I mean I could understand if the sender is mean spirited?
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    Quote Originally Posted by entropie View Post
    2 questions concerning 1 different dimension of thinking:

    1. Why do INFJs only answers your text messages, if you sent em at the most cool time possible ?

    2. And why then after you fucked up the cool moment they dont reply ?

    Do they have the money issues in their back of their head, as said in the other thread, how a well planned life at spending every cent will bring us freedom ?
    So not true for me. I tend to reply to most text messages especially to ones where people obviously are expecting/needing a reply or that are directed only at me and haven't been send to loads of people. I would feel guilty and it would nag me at the back of my head if I ignore people.

    Also am not sure if this is INFJ specific but I love text messages because you can ask a person a very concise question or compliment them/say something nice in a very straightforward way while with telephone conversations you always have to go through the whole "How are you? How are the kids?" small-talk blah blah thing or you might come across as rude.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Avatar7 View Post
    Isn't it rude to not reply? Or is that okay inside one's introverted world..nevermind anyone else? I mean I could understand if the sender is mean spirited?
    It certainly depends on the said message. If it's important and urgent, a prompt reply is definitely in order.

    If it's sent merely to pass the time, out of boredom, or it needs some serious time to reflect upon, one might not receive an instant reply because it's not important or it really takes time to process.

    Quote Originally Posted by Lightyear View Post
    I tend to reply to most text messages especially to ones where people obviously are expecting/needing a reply or that are directed only at me and haven't been send to loads of people. I would feel guilty and it would nag me at the back of my head if I ignore people.
    Oh, this is true for me as well. I always reply to the text messages I deem as important to me and the sender as soon as they arrive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by EcK View Post
    and yet another wierd infj thread.
    If you can't fight it, join it.
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