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[INFJ] Where to find INFJ's

entropie

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I am glad they are so hard to find, cause they really are a species NOONE needs to have on this world ! NOONE !
 

entropie

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[YOUTUBE="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FWuxqatGJbE"]xD[/YOUTUBE]
 

mockingbird

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Since you're having a hard time finding an INFJ, this must mean that you are experiencing no emotional difficulties at the moment. Just wait until you do. When you do, you will eventually come across someone that you are mysteriously compelled to unload all your problems on. This person will be an INFJ. Trust me. No matter how invisible I am most of the time, when even the most obscure acquaintance has a problem, they have no trouble whatsover finding me. They just know somehow that I'll listen to them. It's freaky crap. Don't know how this works, but it does.
 

lane777

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Since you're having a hard time finding an INFJ, this must mean that you are experiencing no emotional difficulties at the moment. Just wait until you do. When you do, you will eventually come across someone that you are mysteriously compelled to unload all your problems on. This person will be an INFJ. Trust me. No matter how invisible I am most of the time, when even the most obscure acquaintance has a problem, they have no trouble whatsover finding me. They just know somehow that I'll listen to them. It's freaky crap. Don't know how this works, but it does.

:laugh:

It's true :rolleyes:
 

Eilonwy

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Since you're having a hard time finding an INFJ, this must mean that you are experiencing no emotional difficulties at the moment. Just wait until you do. When you do, you will eventually come across someone that you are mysteriously compelled to unload all your problems on. This person will be an INFJ. Trust me. No matter how invisible I am most of the time, when even the most obscure acquaintance has a problem, they have no trouble whatsover finding me. They just know somehow that I'll listen to them. It's freaky crap. Don't know how this works, but it does.

So, so very true.
 

Fidelia

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I fourth that. Even strangers do that.
 

Argus

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I'll compile the places and activities so far:
- Reading
- Coffee shops
- Listening to music via headphones
- Art showings
- Beautiful grassy fields on sunny days... reading
- On the computer at home
- Hell
- People watching
- I'm assuming book stores (what section?) unless they ordered those books online, at home, alone.


Since you're having a hard time finding an INFJ, this must mean that you are experiencing no emotional difficulties at the moment.

Maybe I should do the whole damsel in distress routine?


I am fully prepared to exploit every ounce of sexual mo-jo that I posses.
 

AutumnReverie

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I met my INFJ best friend in an Art History class, if that helps. :)

Other places he goes:
- Bookstores (obviously)
- Art showings/gallery
- Park (people watching or reading)
- Home (on the computer)
- Clubs (at night, dancing)
- Lectures (if the topic interests him)
- Independent film theaters
- Different ethnic food restaurants
- In a study abroad program
 

AutumnReverie

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Really? The cesspool pool where the Neanderthals go to clap their ass cheeks to attract the male with the lowest IQ? or more like swing dancing?
Haha, my thoughts exactly. :laugh: The whole dancing thing came about once we got to college and people started trying to bring the INFJ out of his "shell"...and only happens when my INFJ friend has been drinking heavily.
 

fill

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I really can't give you any other advice other than this: talk to random people; one might pop up somewhere.
 

Skyward

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Interesting imagery.

"clap their ass cheeks"

If they do it fast enough they fly away!


I havent been the subject of 'random counselling' when someone comes to me and tells me their problems. I think my friendliness isn't seen as interest, rather as being friendly for the sake of being friendly.

The only way you could really get to me is to become a friend of a friend and then my friend brings you over to whatever hangout I decided to have us hang out at.

ENT women are hard to resist too, so if you find me it wont take much 'sexual mojo.' just having breasts is enough :D
 

thats.mana

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-Drinking alone at a friends house during a party.
-Shopping, running errands alone
-Always on the move, either leaving, going, or headed somewhere.

Then again I'm a guy...

You can try meetup.com, and just search infj. Thats how I've met other infj's in my area in real life. If there is no groups in your area start one and have them come to you.
 

lillyofthevalley

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I'm on a college campus with a shit load of students.
This is like a treasure hunt.

CaptainChick, female indeed.
I usually find a load of ISFP's at weird musically oriented events.

She's the quiet one who uses a fresh flower as a book mark and has doodled all over her notes. She's the one who laughs at every quirky remark but seldom speaks out, her eyes wander around the room, she's always aware of her surroundings and she doesn't miss much.
 

Nyx

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-Drinking alone at a friends house during a party.
-Shopping, running errands alone
-Always on the move, either leaving, going, or headed somewhere.

Then again I'm a guy...

You can try meetup.com, and just search infj. Thats how I've met other infj's in my area in real life. If there is no groups in your area start one and have them come to you.

She's the quiet one who uses a fresh flower as a book mark and has doodled all over her notes. She's the one who laughs at every quirky remark but seldom speaks out, her eyes wander around the room, she's always aware of her surroundings and she doesn't miss much.

Sooo INFJ.
 
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