Okay, who said 4w3 INFPs love obsession? Was that you, BlackCat? :steam:
I need space. Obsession freaks me out. I need to ease into that sort of thing, though I suppose my SJ mom rubbed off on me growing up on being "logical" in relationships. It's a trait I carry to this day, and which nags me at strange moments.
As for you, Fuzz, my first love was an ENFJ and a part of me still has a harmless girl crush on that boy. So if your type is any indication, you are an INFP magnet.
What I find attractive, hmm...this list fluctuates but always has:
Initiative. (I don't initiate anything )
Patience. (Because I won't speak my mind until I feel like it! )
But I need to trust him. Really, in a relationship I desperately need a best friend. If you're not that close to me, or I can't let you get that close to me, you're going to get an uncooperative human being on your hands: