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    Quote Originally Posted by Thursday View Post
    But when you know you're right, it feels that much better.
    Faith of a mustard seed....light as feather, stiff as a board. You get what I mean
    Exactly. I tried going back to INFP and I knew that I was right in ISFP... and it didn't feel right at all. I only lasted like half a day.
    () 9w8-3w4-7w6 tritype.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thessaly View Post
    Obsession is a turn on.
    I like it better in theory than reality (makes for such great stalker love songs). Although a mutual obsession might feel less suffocating....
    Often a star was waiting for you to notice it. A wave rolled toward you out of the distant past, or as you walked under an open window, a violin yielded itself to your hearing. All this was mission. But could you accomplish it? (Rilke)

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    What am I attracted to? Hmm, I know it when I feel it, otherwise...
    Someone with whom I can engage in witty repartee.
    Someone with whom I feel an instantaneous non-verbal connection.
    Someone who is also passionate about music and/or words and living an experience- taking life as it comes.
    Someone who I can tell is attracted to me, but they're subtle about it.
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    I've been thinking about it some more-

    Someone who isn't afraid to be eccentric. The more idiosyncratic, the better!
    Someone I can't figure out right away.

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    what about open admiration
    not smothering but very direct
    I recall telling someone that their personality was "the shit"
    I N V I C T U S
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    The biggest thing I'd be afraid of with dating (, courting, marrying) an INFP is their affinity for not telling you what they really think of you. I know how wrapped up I can get with that type; I really don't want to be thinking everything's okay when suddenly, someday, I come home to an empty house and a heartfelt, but bruising, and tear-stained note about how you couldn't take it anymore. I don't think I could stand the heartbreak, I'd super-blame myself and probably would date again for another decade, if ever. It hurts to even consider that.
    Love is the point.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thursday View Post
    what about open admiration
    not smothering but very direct
    Yep Yep.


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    Quote Originally Posted by neptunesnet View Post
    ...I like masculine guys.

    [x] Ne/Ni
    [x] Fe
    [x] Sincerity
    [x] Sharp as a Whip
    [x] Christian (that's a personal preference; sawree )
    [x] Masculinity. Hawt.
    [x] All the other crap I mentioned...


    Quote Originally Posted by Fuzzcrossed View Post
    The biggest thing I'd be afraid of with dating (, courting, marrying) an INFP is their affinity for not telling you what they really think of you. I know how wrapped up I can get with that type; I really don't want to be thinking everything's okay when suddenly, someday, I come home to an empty house and a heartfelt, but bruising, and tear-stained note about how you couldn't take it anymore. I don't think I could stand the heartbreak, I'd super-blame myself and probably would date again for another decade, if ever. It hurts to even consider that.


    Why can't they open their mouths and tell us what the hell they're thinking??
    Personally, *I* think I'm hysterically funny.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fuzzcrossed View Post
    The biggest thing I'd be afraid of with dating (, courting, marrying) an INFP is their affinity for not telling you what they really think of you. I know how wrapped up I can get with that type; I really don't want to be thinking everything's okay when suddenly, someday, I come home to an empty house and a heartfelt, but bruising, and tear-stained note about how you couldn't take it anymore. I don't think I could stand the heartbreak, I'd super-blame myself and probably would date again for another decade, if ever. It hurts to even consider that.
    We can talk about things, we just have to feel safe to be that vulnerable. I don't see an INFP in a committed, long term relationship just bailing unexpectedly. At worst, an immature, scaredy-cat INFP does that only when casually dating someone.
    Often a star was waiting for you to notice it. A wave rolled toward you out of the distant past, or as you walked under an open window, a violin yielded itself to your hearing. All this was mission. But could you accomplish it? (Rilke)

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    Quote Originally Posted by OrangeAppled View Post
    At worst, an immature, scaredy-cat INFP does that only when casually dating someone.
    :steam::steam::steam::steam::steam::steam::steam:

    Personally, *I* think I'm hysterically funny.

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