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    Quote Originally Posted by OrangeAppled View Post
    I need clear signals though, or I will convince myself it's all in my head.
    Agreed.. don't be TOO subtle. Backing up your actions with words is very helpful.
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    Ne typically says aloud what I'm thinking. Ne brings out my Ni and I actually enjoy my Ni.
    I like Ti because it isn't as ridiculous as my inferior function, Te.
    Fe complements me, too.
    But these aren't exclusive. It's just what has been the pattern for me. I can see potential in just about any NT, NFJ, or ISFP type.

    Uh functions aside, I like masculine guys. Not those brusque crass a-holes, though. I'm talking the type that when you're with them you feel safe and protected. Some guys just give off this male orb ?? that other dudes can pick up on. I love when out with them and because of that orb other guys back off. I like that! Plus, my introversion can wane on the extreme side sometimes, so I like someone to hide behind. I dated this ENTP guy once who I couldn't understand why I didn't like him romantically. We had an awesome chemistry and did a whole lot of (harmless) flirting, but something about him just turned me off. I couldn't put my finger on it until one day it just hit me. All his friends were girls and he was slightly effeminate (that "slightly" already being too much efFEMinate for me). <sigh> Can't help it. Call it a character flaw, I suppose.

    I also really like guys who aren't self-conscious. I have enough of that for the both of us, thank you. I don't need someone else to be as paranoid as I am. Generally, I like someone who can calm me where I'm at my most anxious: being in public places, managing finances, making decisions, etc.

    So...
    [x] Ne/Ni
    [x] Ti
    [x] Fe
    [x] Sincerity
    [x] Sharp as a Whip
    [x] Christian (that's a personal preference; sawree )
    [x] Masculinity. Hawt.
    [x] All the other crap I mentioned...


    Fuzzy, I don't know any ENFJs, but I think ENFJ/INFP would be great together.
    I wish I knew you guys!
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    I want an empathetic mate. I can let a lot of shit go if it's there. It's more important than intelligence, by far, imo.
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    Quote Originally Posted by nebbykoo View Post
    I want an empathetic mate. I can let a lot of shit go if it's there. It's more important than intelligence, by far, imo.
    Agreed.

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    Obsession is a turn on.

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    Be patient, understanding and gentle with me. Be yourself; make me feel accepted enough to do the same.
    4w3 sx/sp? INFP, INFp
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    Quote Originally Posted by Thessaly View Post
    Obsession is a turn on.
    Weird, exactly what I was like with the only girl I loved for a long long time and she didn't respond well at all

    She responds well to the "hard to get thing"... I don't have the energy for that though

    She's INFP

    Strangely another INFP was head over heels for the way I treating this other girl she said "I think I'm in love with you loving ****" sweetest thing ever said to me

    and I know it might get asked... why didn't I go for the 2nd INFP... well she moved and lives way too far away now

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thessaly View Post
    Obsession is a turn on.
    Not for the INFPs I've known. Perhaps flattering at first, it quickly becomes way too restricting.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Udog View Post
    Not for the INFPs I've known. Perhaps flattering at first, it quickly becomes way too restricting.
    I'd say for 3's of some sort the obsession would be taken much better, since 3's love attention. 4w3 INFPs would enjoy it much more IMO... but still too much of a good thing makes it bad.
    () 9w8-3w4-7w6 tritype.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlackCat View Post
    I'd say for 3's of some sort the obsession would be taken much better, since 3's love attention. 4w3 INFPs would enjoy it much more IMO... but still too much of a good thing makes it bad.
    Perhaps you are onto something.

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