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    Default How to tease an enfj

    I want to know how to tease an enfj to their wits end. How do I keep you guys on your toes? What will entice you? What paradoxes do you take part in? What drives you nuts....the stuff you wish didn't.

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    anybody?
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    ENFJs like quick-witted banter which Ne users tend to be good at. Say "somewhat shocking but not overly tasteless" or random things that come to your head. The ENFJ might be like "wha...? wow" but it is usually out of amusement unless she acts completely offended. One thing to note, don't try too hard. Maybe it's just me but I like genuine people and unnatural people grate me. Just use your natural quirky INFP charm and you will be golden.

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    ^ That's so true. They like it subtly naughty, not vulgar. Cleverness is key. The INFP imagination seems to amuse them a lot, as does any rebellious streak we have. I think it surprises them to see a usually quiet and moralistic person be a little bad, haha.
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    Dry, intelligent humor. You indeed have to be clever and tactful. I think most NT humor is hysterical. I enjoy sarcasm, provided it is friendly and not cruel.

    I think I laugh at a lot of really random stuff, too, like natural observations or hearing the observations others make about behavior.

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    Withhold sex
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    And oh, I have an odd fondness of well-done satire and parody.

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    I *love* verbal jousting. Nothing crude, but definitely sharp and observational.


    Quote Originally Posted by entropie View Post
    Withhold sex


    I'm going to strangle Entropie with my underpants. That's pretty sexy.
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    Doesnt need an enfj for that one

    [URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tEBvftJUwDw&t=0s[/URL]

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    treat them like an INFP

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