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Why not right, here?
It seems like Te and Fe would conflict, and that they would have to realize and accept that the other had very different judging styles.
ENTJs and ENTPs would start brawling, although I can see that as an opportunity for the INTPs and ENFPs to smash and grab what's left.
ENTJs and ENTPs would start brawling, although I can see that as an opportunity for the INTPs and ENFPs to smash and grab what's left.
Why not right, here?
I can't imagine many INFJ's would go for that. I can only tolerate impersonal communication such as this - or phone calls for so long. I need to be in the presence of another to keep me engaged for extended periods of time.
To the OP: The only places you will often find me alone is the bookstore/library (sorry to mention it, but it's really your best bet), music store, or church. Other than that, I'll be with someone for shopping, going out to some coffee shop, festival, or museum.
INFJs can be found almost anywhere where there are opportunities to observe people and where they feel safe/interested in joining in at some juncture. For sports, you should look less towards team sports and more towards things like tennis, badminton, running, hiking, wallclimbing.
For me: school, ESL volunteering, taking a class that interests me, library/bookstore, walking, music groups of various kinds, seeing live music or theatre, coffee shops, conferences, travelling - those would be the kinds of venues I'd be in, but I think there's a pretty wide range, depending on what that particular INFJ feels passionate about.
I find ENTJs very interesting and I really admire their creativity and drive, but I would worry that they'd expect me to be a rose in their lapel a lot of the time, facilitating their dreams. I'd really rather share something and work on it together, but I'm not sure if that's their natural bent. I also need someone who can be vulnerable some of the time and let me in on what's going on internally from time to time. I think that would require finding a fairly mature ENTJ who has had opportuny to see the value in that and practice it. I have learned a lot though and think I understand how to interact better than I used to with TJs. Any particular bumps along the way that you experienced Babylon Candle?
im a library regular right now...im sure that when uni ends and i have $ --> ill simply become a book store regular.
i tend to spend all of my time in the non fiction sections...will this compromise Operation INFJ Search?
Nope, I like biographies a lot!
INFJs can be found almost anywhere where there are opportunities to observe people and where they feel safe/interested in joining in at some juncture. For sports, you should look less towards team sports and more towards things like tennis, badminton, running, hiking, wallclimbing.
For me: school, ESL volunteering, taking a class that interests me, library/bookstore, walking, music groups of various kinds, seeing live music or theatre, coffee shops, conferences, travelling - those would be the kinds of venues I'd be in, but I think there's a pretty wide range, depending on what that particular INFJ feels passionate about.
I find ENTJs very interesting and I really admire their creativity and drive, but I would worry that they'd expect me to be a rose in their lapel a lot of the time, facilitating their dreams. I'd really rather share something and work on it together, but I'm not sure if that's their natural bent. I also need someone who can be vulnerable some of the time and let me in on what's going on internally from time to time. I think that would require finding a fairly mature ENTJ who has had opportuny to see the value in that and practice it. I have learned a lot though and think I understand how to interact better than I used to with TJs. Any particular bumps along the way that you experienced Babylon Candle?
Do you think that ENTJs are often drawn to people who will buy into their plans, or do you think they tend to look for someone more independent?
Unfortunately, being an ENTJ, does not lend itself to being very patient (especially when it comes to the things we want the most). Do you have any insights into how one could work on becoming more patient.
I think this is the most frequent and devastating mistake I have made when pursuing a relationship.