have you ever noticed that INFPs tend to want to relate everything back to something that happened to them or something we know? I've seen this a lot. I can see how it could be interpreted as selfish...
Also, do really stupid people annoy you? Like, make you want to hit yourself in the head with a shovel just to dull the awareness of the inane drivel coming out of their mouths? And, why the inclination toward self directed anger when the anger is clearly do to some outside effect?
are you pretty much incapable of saying you're truly good at something if it would give you social/economic value?
Do people usually tend to not feel strongly about you, but still remember you?
non-INFPs, do you notice this stuff in INFPs?