The judgementalism, especially the jumping to conclusions one.
The rubbing in that other people are wrong.
The denial when they themselves are wrong.
The lack of patience and realization that people are in fact people and are allowed to make mistakes without getting killed over it.
The fact that people can be so #@%%&#@ selfish and hurtful towards one another and not even care. On the contrary, they'll kick others when they're down.
The blatant hounding and annoying of another person or worse, a child or animal which cannot defend itself, like those 'things' just exist to relieve them of their boredom :steam:
The incessant nagging when you don't do things their way
The constant degrading or worse, guilttripping, because you're not living up to *their* standards
The ridiculing of other people's ideas, just to feel better about yourself and your fragile little ego.
The fact that they seem to feel entitled to demand my presence and attention in this world.
Note: clearly some NFs can have these traits too, so don't even!
I've got nuthin'. The only thing I can think of is that SJs get on my nerves because it upsets them so deeply when I change my hair, which I do drastically a few times a year. My SJ neighbor stood in my living room with both hands over her face and just wailed and wailed. "Are you upset?" Well, no, you see, I paid $60 for this haircut.
JAYSUS, it grows back, it's just hair. And you can be female and have really short hair. It's true.
It's like when the family dog used to go nuts whenever my dad put a hat on.