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    Quote Originally Posted by simulatedworld View Post
    How does an INFJ show interest in someone?

    Very subtly.
    Maybe male INFJs. Female ones just always "happen" to be in your path where they weren't before and then pretend like they didn't see you there unless you initiate conversation. I always thought it was awkwardly and painfully obvious.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fidelia View Post
    Maybe male INFJs. Female ones just always "happen" to be in your path where they weren't before and then pretend like they didn't see you there unless you initiate conversation. I always thought it was awkwardly and painfully obvious.
    I call it "aggressive availability". It's SOP for INFJ's.
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    I hate it when I do that and yet can't seem to stop it! What's SOP?

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    Standard operating procedure.
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    Oh!

    Yeah, I guess that method works less well for guys though... For women, it usually is fairly effective as long as the other party is looking for them and engages them in conversation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fidelia View Post
    Oh!

    Yeah, I guess that method works less well for guys though... For women, it usually is fairly effective as long as the other party is looking for them and engages them in conversation.
    Yea. I would imagine it works better for women. Men are always hanging about. Orbiting. If women orbit, it's only because they've failed to be noticed. Or, the man in question is aloof or oblivious.

    I think if a man wants to take a passive route and elicit some response it is better for him to be carefree and oblivious to the attentions of the woman in question.
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    What do ENTPs do?

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    Quote Originally Posted by fidelia View Post
    What do ENTPs do?
    Relentless attention + aloofness.
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    I'm suspicious of people who like me if it came too easily.
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    Quote Originally Posted by fidelia View Post
    Maybe male INFJs. Female ones just always "happen" to be in your path where they weren't before and then pretend like they didn't see you there unless you initiate conversation. I always thought it was awkwardly and painfully obvious.
    Oh my god I used to do this all the time in high school. I would take a different "route" to my next class in order to just "happen" to pass by the object of my affections and whenever they said hello I'd act like me being there was a complete coincidence lol

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