Whenever I put my foot down with someone, I always hear: "You're like a completely different person! What happened to you? I want the old you back!"
Now, I HATE hearing this because:
a. I am the exact same person as I was when I WASN'T putting my foot down.
b. I'm SO nice about it! I am never harsh or mean at all. I'm gently firm at best. I just happen to be gently firm while telling them something that they don't want to hear.
My questions are:
a. What might cause this accusation? Do INFPs turn into something else when their values have been stepped on?
b. Has anyone else heard this before?