After taking a lot of fire, there's gotta be some healing. It's often postulated how scummy we are; like every other type, we suffer from character defects, but I look back on Pink and Protean and know that we've had more than our fair share here.
There's also that little thing about generalizing on type in a negative fashion; yes, we might all have similar problems, but we are all different people at different maturity levels with different relational training.
So here's a thread that's going to get down to brass tacks. Pick an ENFJ you actually know, and say something good about them. If you want to comment positively on the general type, than that's cool too, I figure it will balance the negative.
As a bonus, all the ENFJs here that read this thread and take some love, should also leave some for the person who left us a compliment, we should compliment them, and maybe expand that out to their type.
Simple enough? Let the love fest begin!