I don't have any. I think they can change and that is how that'd happen. I think circumstances can force changes in virtues, major life changes. It's a really interesting question, something will pop into my head later, I'll post that if it does.
Definitely compassion. I couldn't fall in love with someone who doesn't have compassion, I just would not be able to trust this person to ever be there for me when I am hurting and truly need some support.
right yeah me too. compassion is totally important and it's not enough to just show me compassion. i need to know you have a genuine concern for people and aren't just kind to people out of duty or obligation.
There can’t be any large-scale revolution until there’s a personal revolution, on an individual level. It’s got to happen inside first.
Humility is a big one for me, as I think it encompasses a lot. Even if people make mistakes, even if those mistakes cause pain to others, it means so much to me if they humbly apologise and try to make amends.
I have just had an example of that in my personal life. Someone who had caused me quite a lot of pain - and who apparently hadn't quite realized it until I explained it to them - has humbly apologised to me and done their best to make things right between us. I had almost written this person off, I'm afraid. I was so shocked and touched that I cried.