ENTPs, ENFPs, and ESTPs regularly tune in for our private broadcasts; there's something to that.
I'm convinced more INxPs would have a better shot if they stopped bitchin' and whinin' about the more noisome pursuers. The resultant misplaced jealousy stews into a bitter passive-aggression and frankly, it's unseemly lads.
"There is no god; there is only us. Savage and fragile."
I think the enneagram and instinctual type stackings influence this a lot too - as well as all other bits that aren't related to their personality type... Hmmm but I am usually drawn to ExxPs and INTPs, and intuitive feelers in general.
I am currently with an ESTP and I've never had this kinda chemistry & passion with anyone. I feel real with him. We're not naturally in-tuned to each other but it just somehow works great. It hurts a bit too cause I get aware of my weaknesses and need to work on those but it's doing me good.