[ENFP] Hate an ENFP? Tell us why!

[RiderOnTheStorm]

They can be pretty vindictive upon occasion if they feel slighted or abused in any way, but they can be pretty emotionally dependable too, for people they care about.

And you HATE ENFPs because if this, or are you stating an observation?

 

[Bethedee]

And you HATE ENFPs because if this, or are you stating an observation?

Well, the vindictive thing can get extremely annoying, especially if I don't actually see myself as having done something to deserve it.

 

[Amargith]

LOL, awesome that this thread surfaces when all the other new hate-threads are going about

 

[Tiny Army]

I hate ENFPs because I can't find any other ones where I live! I even put up a craigslist ad!

(It got me an ENTP and two INFPs. They are my friends now!)

 

[revolve]

Tiny Army - that is so cute!

 

[Laurie]

What scares me is that I clicked here to complain about the same thing Tiny Army did.

 

[Amargith]

I recently found an ENXP at work..according to the test she's ENTP, but the way she bounces around and is all girly..no way. I love her, we get along famously

 

[Synthetic Darkness]

I was an ENFP who tried to kill herself three times.

My biggest trouble being an ENFP is dealing with my own sadness. My whole life I tried so hard to keep everyone happy that I felt like I was drowning inside. The worse I felt, the happier I acted and the harder I tried to make everyone else happy. I think ENFPs sometimes use their empathy to ignore their own pain. I thought if I stopped everyone else from feeling bad, my sadness would go away on its own.

That's exactly how I've felt until a few weeks ago. I'm a master at burying my own emotions. And choose to keep things on a superficial level so I could distance myself from people. The people who claim to know me the best don't know me at all.

I had an INTJ friend of mine try and psycho-analyze a month ago, had me so depressive on the verge of suicide...gah he was just so insensitive sounding a bit like a robot really. Still haven't really forgiven him for it. But I can hold grudges for a longgggg time...I wonder if that's an ENFP trait ?

 

[Laurie]

Yes, long grudges.

You need to coach an INTJ on how to shrink you and once they get it right they really rock.

I'm at the distance from people thing offline right now. I don't like it but I dont feel like getting to know people who will probably just piss me off anyway.

 

[Synthetic Darkness]

Yes, long grudges.

I'm at the distance from people thing offline right now. I don't like it but I dont feel like getting to know people who will probably just piss me off anyway.

Gah thank you...people have been pissing me off/disappointing me a LOT lately. And it's always the SAME types...my INT- friends.

 

[Ulaes]

Just curious if anyone out there has anything against enfp's...

We are always curious as to what people really think about us so let us have it!


anything at all....

not a thing. at least nothing resulting exlcusively from their type... stop borrowing my stuff!

 

[Ulaes]

oh wait i jsut remebered the trantrums of an immmature enfp, but hey, esfjs are worse even when they are mature. *flips the bird at esfjs while speeding away in a getaway car*

 

[Synthetic Darkness]

ENFPs...are clingy and loud, obnoxious and are fickle.

 

[Tiny Army]

And self loathing above all!

 

[Lady_X]

ENFPs...are clingy and loud, obnoxious and are fickle.

hey! screw that lil girlie....you may be but i am not.

 

[Synthetic Darkness]

Hey I'm only noting observations!

 

[Hendo Barbarosa]

the only thing that doesn't add up there, to me, is clingy. I always find "distracted" is an apropos adjective too. In a good way though, it's not like I can't keep up with the ever-changing thought process.

 

[Dwigie]

the word patience is unfamiliar to many of them.

 

[Amargith]

comes with age..at least on certain areas. Others you should just never hope on

 

[sculpting]

ENFPs are way too sensitive,emotionally clingy, severely ADHD, whiny, and way too full of drama. They also get all pissy if offended and try and be really mean, but are just inept at it.

Oh and they never shut up.