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    I hate Amargith. There I said it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Peguy View Post
    I hate Amargith. There I said it!
    Why won't you love me?! All I ever asked for is for you to love me...*sniff*
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    Quote Originally Posted by Amargith View Post
    Why won't you love me?! All I ever asked for is for you to love me...*sniff*
    'cause you're a devil-worshipping heathen!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Peguy View Post
    'cause you're a devil-worshipping heathen!
    Oh...right
    my bad!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Amargith View Post
    +1

    You're right, Lady X, that's just it. My motto usually is: plz don't ask me to change who I am, but feel free to make suggestions, and I'll gladly consider them



    That's quite the long motto, my friend, you sure you're not trying to overcompensate to cover all bases to the criticisms on this thread?

    ENFPs (actually NFPs) - Fi and Ne tend to not take personal criticisms well....seeing many more layers to the criticisms than is, and/or, justifying many more layers for the criticisms than is 'needed'.

    But, I can't say I could ever *hate* an ENFP....

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    Q:erus: It's the result of many years of 'friendly advice'

    Look, I'm more than willing to admit that we don't do criticism well. Hence I posted the feedback rules, for those who need to deal with ENFPs on a regular basis
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    Quote Originally Posted by Amargith View Post

    Do you by any chance agree with the feedbackrules I posted? That that's the best way to get an ENFP to listen to you?
    i guess somewhat...i guess i just naturally react defensively to perceived attacks...or any sort of passive aggresiveness too because it implies they are mad...bent out of shape or pissed off by some rule i unknowingly broke...when in all honestly...it truly is not on purpose...just like we have our rights that others may not be aware of...other people have "rules" we're not aware of so expecting us to automatically be aware of those and then attacking us when we aren't...doesn't seem entirely fair either...so...i think it is all in how things are discussed...i honestly feel like i'm open to changing behavior for someone i'm living with if not made to feel like an awful person because of it. i think my need to defend that right...the right of being treated a certain way...overrides my ability to give a shit what your issue is at that point...but if you can say in a light hearted funny non judging manner...omg!! haha i'm about to start getting all stressed out about that mess in the kitchen...ahhh...haha...would you mind? i know it doesn't bother you like it does me...but it's startin to wig me out! haha then...my response would be hahaha...funny lil clean freak...sure

    but...huffing and puffing around the house or throwing accusations...will bring out the fight in us...not saying you have to change just trying to say...there's ways to communicate your needs w/o being hateful about it..and it's a whole lot more effective with enfps.
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    exactly
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady X View Post
    ...there's ways to communicate your needs w/o being hateful about it..and it's a whole lot more effective with enfps.
    Who was being dramatic or hateful about it? You're reacting to an imaginary situation where the other person is accusing you instead of the actual situations where the person calmly commented on a behavior.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lauren Ashley View Post
    Who was being dramatic or hateful about it? You're reacting to an imaginary situation where the other person is accusing you instead of the actual situations where the person calmly commented on a behavior.
    no babe was referencing personal experiences. had nothing to do with any comments in this thread.
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