Seriously, I can't help it! When someone is upset or anything, I just have to listen! Not that I always care, but most people are interesting creatures.
but funny thing is, I'm not that motivated to help them. Not always. It's more fascination and insight. So, I don't fuckin' understand what career suits me. I'm not that into helping people....................................
I too have suffered ENxPs who sooooo needed to STFU. Ne naturally loves being the center of attention and both enfp and entp have their various reasons to interrupt and/or unravel focus in conversations.
in a broaders context, this is a general character trait of obnoxious people. so while ENPs may have a natural inclination here its certainly no excuse. look at the person, not the type.
It is scary how much I can relate to this. I feel the happiest when I am the center of attention, so I try to do what I can to get it. I enjoy getting reactions out of people- seeing my influence.
Ok, but how often you are nice just because you don't want problems/conflict.
I doubt that you are very interested in people 100% of the time.
Not saying you believe otherwise, but you must understand that ENFPs are all about the people. We do generally tend to like and relate (however slightly) to most people. And we do have very strong values (Fi), meaning if anyone were to cross the line we wouldn't hesitate to make ourselves heard.