I was an ENFP who tried to kill herself three times.
My biggest trouble being an ENFP is dealing with my own sadness. My whole life I tried so hard to keep everyone happy that I felt like I was drowning inside. The worse I felt, the happier I acted and the harder I tried to make everyone else happy. I think ENFPs sometimes use their empathy to ignore their own pain. I thought if I stopped everyone else from feeling bad, my sadness would go away on its own.
That's exactly how I've felt until a few weeks ago. I'm a master at burying my own emotions. And choose to keep things on a superficial level so I could distance myself from people. The people who claim to know me the best don't know me at all.
I had an INTJ friend of mine try and psycho-analyze a month ago, had me so depressive on the verge of suicide...gah he was just so insensitive sounding a bit like a robot really. Still haven't really forgiven him for it. But I can hold grudges for a longgggg time...I wonder if that's an ENFP trait ?
Men are like parking spaces/the good ones are always taken and the ones left are handicapped or to small.