Unhealthy ENFPs can become attention seeking and histrionic. Any type can be a pain in the ass when they're emotionally unhealthy. I am trying to think of various things about my personality that people have complained about.
Quite a few INTPs have accused me of being fake nice. I can be super passive aggressive and I used to let my anger simmer for months before just blowing up at the person I was mad at. I've been trying to overcome this kind of behaviour. I think ENFPs also have a tendency to gossip.
I love them to death but damnit they drive me crazy!
I know an ENFP who constantly invades my personal bubble and FORCES me into cuddling. It's fondly referred to as 'cuddle rape'. It's almost pushed me to the point of violence. Seriously. It pisses me off. //Venting finished. If someone really needs affection and I care about them then I will deliver without problems but that is rediculous.
I also notice that I tend to keep in touch with people better than her, while she expects to just pick up where she left off with people & everything always be the same with them. I've seen her hurt on a few occasions when other people do not respond to her when she suddenly reappears in their life after a long absence.
I've noticed this too. What pisses me off is when they don't return my calls for six months and expect things to be a-OK. But I've learned not to care about it.
before i read this someone needs to tell me that it is not actually 17 pages of criticism. i'm not sure i could take that.
What do you expect in a topic called, "Hate an ENFP? Tell Us Why!"
Oh, people have accused me of this too! I'm sorry, hugs is how we do! I can never tell if someone is a hug person or not.
I tend to check first, and if it happens and I notice during the hug that the person isn't happy about it, I ask about it, and respect their wishes the next time..This is only irl though, online hugging is a totally different matter and hugged ye shall be here!