User Tag List

First 65696104105106107108 Last

Results 1,051 to 1,060 of 1134

  1. #1051
    SingSmileShine
    Guest

    Default

    -shock-

    How could anyone hate us?


  2. #1052
    Junior Member
    Join Date
    Jun 2012
    MBTI
    INFP
    Posts
    15

    Default

    What I've been told "You're the nicest person that I know, but I HATE spending time with you as you're always so hyperactive and happy!" (the person was deadly serious, it was an insult and upsetting since I don't know how to fix it)

    People also find it rude when I always have to jump in conversations and leave flippantly to "find the flying butterfly..." I honestly can't help it though and mean no harm by it....
    sorry folks!

  3. #1053
    Junior Member
    Join Date
    Jun 2012
    MBTI
    ENFP
    Posts
    8

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by faith View Post

    7) One of her pet ways of making people feel good about themselves is to act as though that person is practically saving her life by helping her out somehow.

    8) She'll pretend like everything is her fault just to get people to stop arguing.

    The time I liked her best was when she got angry and smashed her fist against the doorpost. I thought, "Finally! A genuine expression rather than one specifically designed to make people feel good." Only she ruined it later by apologizing to me for letting me see her angry.
    Oh my goodness! Though I can especially relate to what is quoted above, I think your aunt has either never had any alone time EVER, or she had been locked up in a dark cave until the day you met her. She is the poster child for the unbalanced ENFP in my humble opinion. I can relate to a lot you said about her, though most things I can relate to are qualities that I have learned to or am learning to balance out. Thank you for your comments. You just saved my life! Heheh..

    This is all gold to an ENFP like me who wants to know everything anyone ever thinks of her, but man... I feel bad for the both of you at this point. Maybe if she became aware of the fact that others have noticed these things about her she would also think about it and try to listen more. When I don't make enough time to rest from all of the association and reflect on my life I basically turn into a lunatic. At that point I get super moody and introverted until I lock myself away for a while, write a few songs, sleep too much, and finally come on out so everyone can tell me they love my music.
    Wait...I said that out loud didn't I?


    People are like teabags...put us in hot water if you wanna see what we're made of!

  4. #1054
    i love skylights's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2010
    MBTI
    INFP
    Enneagram
    6w7 so/sx
    Socionics
    EII Ne
    Posts
    7,835

    Default

    aunt in faith's post sounds like unhealthy 2w3

  5. #1055
    Senior Member Pinker85's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2011
    MBTI
    ISFP
    Posts
    731

    Default

    Can't think of anything. I really like ENFPs. By far my favorite type to be around.

  6. #1056
    Nips away your dignity Fluffywolf's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2009
    MBTI
    INTP
    Enneagram
    9 sp/sx
    Posts
    9,422

    Default

    I have no particularly negative disposition towards ENFP's or any type in general, all types have positive and negative traits, of which the negative traits can be dealt with once matured.

    But I've often been amazed how (immature/unhealthy) ENFP's can sometimes say something and then in the same sentence proving themselves to be wrong.

    Like: "I don't discriminate, but Mexicans talk funny.". Stuff like that. It's a form of humor to me.
    ~Self-depricating Megalomaniacal Superwolf

  7. #1057
    Let me count the ways Betty Blue's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2010
    MBTI
    ENFP
    Enneagram
    7W6 sp/sx
    Socionics
    IEE
    Posts
    4,797

    Default

    Can i say negative things bout ENFP's?
    Well i will, i do like and love some/most ENFP's but Hezous some enhealthy types can be hellishly manipulative and possesive. It's not particularly intentional... it's mainly fairly innocent but can have devastating results.... i think because i seem acutely aware of this... i'm much more guarded around them now. Yah ENFP's like to decode/get into the heads of other ENFP's too.
    Now you see... with INFP's (generally) you get all that fun time Ne crazy banter and idea exchanging but with a better/higher balance of values. I prefer that. Not saying INFP's can't or won't be manipulative just that's it's different.
    "We knew he was someone who had a tragic flaw, that's where his greatness came from"

  8. #1058
    Nips away your dignity Fluffywolf's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2009
    MBTI
    INTP
    Enneagram
    9 sp/sx
    Posts
    9,422

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by HelenOfTroy View Post
    Can i say negative things bout ENFP's?
    Well i will, i do like and love some/most ENFP's but Hezous some enhealthy types can be hellishly manipulative and possesive. It's not particularly intentional... it's mainly fairly innocent but can have devastating results.... i think because i seem acutely aware of this... i'm much more guarded around them now. Yah ENFP's like to decode/get into the heads of other ENFP's too.
    Now you see... with INFP's (generally) you get all that fun time Ne crazy banter and idea exchanging but with a better/higher balance of values. I prefer that. Not saying INFP's can't or won't be manipulative just that's it's different.
    By my definition of healthy and mature. ENFP's would realize the consequences of their actions up to a fair point, and this would not be a problem for them. So your example, in my opinion, falls under immature and/or unhealthy behaviour.
    ~Self-depricating Megalomaniacal Superwolf

  9. #1059
    Let me count the ways Betty Blue's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2010
    MBTI
    ENFP
    Enneagram
    7W6 sp/sx
    Socionics
    IEE
    Posts
    4,797

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Fluffywolf View Post
    By my definition of healthy and mature. ENFP's would realize the consequences of their actions up to a fair point, and this would not be a problem for them. So your example, in my opinion, falls under immature and/or unhealthy behaviour.
    Yeps... just, as i said...unhealthy ENFP behaviour. I believe most/all types have potential to be manipulative it's just something that would (esp in relationships) align well with that whole... "Oh, i can't decide...oh i can't commit, oh look...greener grass...but wait for me because i love you" thang.

    EDIT: I don't hate anyone.
    "We knew he was someone who had a tragic flaw, that's where his greatness came from"

  10. #1060
    Nips away your dignity Fluffywolf's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2009
    MBTI
    INTP
    Enneagram
    9 sp/sx
    Posts
    9,422

    Default

    @HelenOfTroy

    Ah, I read past the mention of unhealthy, thought you were adressing ENFP's as a group. My bad.

    Still, that just means that you were saying something negative about unhealthy ENFP's. Everyone can say negative things about someone that is unhealthy though, so your first sentence threw me off.
    ~Self-depricating Megalomaniacal Superwolf

Similar Threads

  1. [ISTP] Hate an ISTP? Tell us why!
    By DJAchtundvierzig in forum The SP Arthouse (ESFP, ISFP, ESTP, ISTP)
    Replies: 103
    Last Post: 02-06-2017, 06:55 AM
  2. [INTJ] Hate an INTJ? Tell us why!
    By DJAchtundvierzig in forum The NT Rationale (ENTP, INTP, ENTJ, INTJ)
    Replies: 201
    Last Post: 01-03-2017, 12:20 PM
  3. [INFJ] Hate an INFJ? Tell us why!
    By DJAchtundvierzig in forum The NF Idyllic (ENFP, INFP, ENFJ, INFJ)
    Replies: 222
    Last Post: 12-12-2016, 01:41 PM
  4. [ENFJ] Hate an ENFJ? Tell us why!
    By proteanmix in forum The NF Idyllic (ENFP, INFP, ENFJ, INFJ)
    Replies: 548
    Last Post: 03-03-2016, 02:16 AM
  5. [INTJ] Hate an INTJ? Tell us why!
    By Cranky in forum The NT Rationale (ENTP, INTP, ENTJ, INTJ)
    Replies: 168
    Last Post: 07-24-2010, 05:27 PM

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
Single Sign On provided by vBSSO