One of my serious relationships was once with an ESxJ, we dated for almost two years, and even though we had little in common, he treated me really well and was, to this very day, one of my best boyfriends.
He cared deeply for me, never played games, enjoyed my company *always*, took care of me and looked out for me, and, I dunno, was just really boyfriend-like.
He was the opposite of a nerd, or bookish, (which is really my type), yet he was incredibly business savvy, smart (in the high IQ sense), fun-loving, and I dunno, he was the perfect mixture of masculinity and femininity.
Feminine men seem to be deeply attracted to me, (I can be quite androgynous, or even downright "masculine" at times), and they do nothing for me in the bedroom department.
It's ironic, I guess, because I tend to dislike ESJs.
Long story short, I am kinda talking to this guy, and he's definitely an ESJ, I think, and he does sorta remind me of my ESJ ex, (who happens to be married, right now).
What do you NFs think about seriously dating someone you don't intellectually, or cosmically connect with?
ESJs are kinda refreshing, they're so busy doing stuff, so their heads are rarely, if ever, in the clouds or up their asses, like ours! :P
For example, this guy I'm talking to LOVES sports!!!
And he hasn't picked up a book in years.
But, I dunno, he's pretty fucking wise, incredibly street smart, business savvy and generally speaking a good man, and... he would make a lovely boyfriend.
Sorry for the rant, I am just a bit confused.
Any input at all would be helpful, thanks!
Oh, and before this guy I was talking to a hardcore NF, and it was like the most fun, creative-outlet, trip of a travel. But I never touched his penis, nor would I ever want to, nameen?!?!