Quality time is probably high up there, along with words of affirmation, acts of service and... what was the fifth? I remember the gifts thing. That's probably the last thing on my list. What was the fifth? *scrolls* Oh, physical touch. That's probably high up there too, but since I'm fairly convinced that quality time is number one and that words of affirmation are really wonderful, it probably falls somewhere in the middle.
They're running just like you
For you, and I, wooo
So people, people, need some good ol' love
I had a three-way tie between words of affirmation, quality time, and acts of service. I got basically nada on gifts, with physical touch somewhere in the middle.
This is me exactly.
I've come to see something particularly interesting: I think love languages differ per the person whom I am referring to. As far as universally, I think I am mostly a words and quality time person. But romantically, I think acts of service become way more important.
A friend of mine also pointed out that it seems that two of the languages, acts of service and quality time, are more of the deep, committed nature and that N's almost always seem to have one of them in their top two. I think this thread seems to support that idea, as far as NF's are concerned