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    Seriously Delirious Udog's Avatar
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    Quality time first. This doesn't mean quantity of time, though - in fact it might suggest against quantity. It means sharing time together, instead of simply occupying the same space at the same time.

    Physical touch second. Touch can express things that words can't.

    Spending some time cuddling on the couch often ranks very highly on my list of successful evenings.

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    You NFs and your "quality time!" If I notice you're in the room, that should count!
    Oh what tragedy that you had to be male!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Udog View Post
    Quality time first. This doesn't mean quantity of time, though - in fact it might suggest against quantity. It means sharing time together, instead of simply occupying the same space at the same time.

    Physical touch second. Touch can express things that words can't.

    Spending some time cuddling on the couch often ranks very highly on my list of successful evenings.
    Bolded- EXACTLY what I was trying to communicate when I said keyword quality.

    Also it's odd yet cool that we have the exact same love language preferences.
    () 9w8-3w4-7w6 tritype.

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    1 Quality Time
    2 Acts of Service (Love is ACTION)
    3/4 Physical Touch/ Words of Affirmation
    5 Receiving Gifts

    I may be taking it out of context, but the way I see it that love is action, and that words of affirmation and physical touch serve for a more shallow relationship for me, and the real love comes in through quality time and a little of acts of service. Receiving gifts shouldn't even be a love language.
    Is it that by its indefiniteness it shadows forth the heartless voids and immensities of the universe, and thus stabs us from behind with the thought of annihilation, when beholding the white depths of the milky way?

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    Apparently I am not only bi-lingual in real life but also in the love language.

    27% Words of Affirmation 8
    27% Quality Time 8
    20% Acts of Service 6
    17% Receiving Gifts 5
    10% Physical Touch 3
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    *Actual time may vary.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Udog View Post
    Touch can express things that words can't.
    I would have to agree with this.

    Spending some time cuddling on the couch often ranks very highly on my list of successful evenings.
    And this.

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    touch and quality time, but I'm also one way with acts of service. I put more into something I do than I get out of something done for me.
    Dreams are best served manifest and tangible.

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    Well, according to the test, my priority is quality time with acts of service and physical touch close behind.

    I agree with Udog that it's about quality and not quantity. Space is important and makes the time spent together even more precious.

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    Mine are Words of Affirmation and (really thoughtful) Gifts.

    Nothing wins me over quite like a surprise whimsical gift I've been wanting along with a long note telling me how spiffy I am and how much I mean to someone.


    ^^^
    I think the above appeals strongly to my INFJ need to be *known*. If you've done your homework enough, and stuck with me long enough to get past my serious layers and find what's going to make me clap my hands in a giddy, silly way, you're so IN.
    I think I think more than you think I think.

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    13%
    Words of Affirmation 4
    23%
    Quality Time 7
    7%
    Receiving Gifts 2
    27%
    Acts of Service 8
    30%
    Physical Touch 9

    Here is a link to the test again Love Languages Test

    This is ironcally how I like to show love to others to

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    Words of affirmation and quality time tie. For me, these equal emotional support, which is key to me feeling close to someone.

    After that, physical affection and services. I'm not one to initiate affection, but I still need it. Services show me someone is willing to sacrifice their time/energy for me.

    Lastly is gifts. Gifts are nice, and they make me feel spoiled and appreciated, but they don't mean as much as the above acts.
    Often a star was waiting for you to notice it. A wave rolled toward you out of the distant past, or as you walked under an open window, a violin yielded itself to your hearing. All this was mission. But could you accomplish it? (Rilke)

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