Sometimes I wonder whether you're for real. You're talking about Fe right or wrong (societally accepted behaviours, not ethical concerns), which to me is indeed rather irrelevant. How to look beyond your own type 101, seriously.Originally Posted by Athenian200
I have a feeling that Fi makes me unpredictable. I love to have fun, I'm blunt, I can seem crazy, I have no problem with taboo subjects, but if you go too far for my moral compass, I will comment about it...
I remember one "ha ha, it's all in good fun, let's send a message to friend x's boyfriend pretending to be her and saying some weird shit" instance. I asked the friend who wanted to do that whether she'd want to have it done to her and that that stuff might unnecessarily strain their relationship. Also it just seems completely wrong to go behind someone's back when they're in the pool and do that. It's dishonest and leaves the other person powerless. I don't think you should speak in someone else's name. Games like that you really shouldn't try on me.
I don't throw a tantrum, I just calmly tell them and generally they drop it. If they don't want to drop it, I will distance myself and interfere when I notice the other person wondering what happened.
This is just one aspect of Fi, though.