I posted this in a thread on the relationship forum but wanted to get opinions of NF types. This is a combination of what was someone said and combining it with logic and perception and just wanted others opinions on it. I know there was a post on ENFPs and lack of a fatherly figure or attention and this seemed to take that on ethought one step farther and could apply to NFs in general. NF men may have this applied to a womanly figure instead of a manly or fatherly figure.
I was talking about women to someone the other day and she had said that sometimes that thier fathers lack of emotional affection causes women to attach to those who who will give it to them and to do anything to get just a glimpse of that affection. It is selfish and they will close there eyes to achieve that affection. They dont suffer from knowledge they suffer from closed eyes. They dont see the person for who they are, they see them for what they want them to be and hold onto glimpses of who they can be. Sometimes its the lack of attention that they seek. What they lack is personal not based on personality. How they go about getting it is personality based.