I'm glad you don't bash us all--I'm tired of getting put into the "scumbag" cateogry just because of Fe. I'm a people mover--I'm very open about that and I try not to be deceptive in my dealings with others. "Try" meaning I make an effort to just direct people honestly with my impressions and interpretations of others--the problem is, nobody ever listens (because most people are SJs and they think they're right about everything). So I prove my point...and they stand back and go, "oh", and then next week it's the same deal.
Sometimes you've got to twist the emotion a little, or present facts from a "favorable prespective" in order to get people to do something. For an ENFJ, the real moral measure is the motivation.