I'm with LLNF. I know of one or two other ENFJs. Taco, Brian and a female co-worker friend of my mother's who I'm not close to. In contrast, IRL I'm swimming in INFJs, both male and female. Dunno why that is.
I can imagine that the males might test ENTJ if they aren't comfortable with their feelings (and most seem to be ill at ease with it). I'm pretty ill at ease with mine and I'm a girl, so the boys may be underground.