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    How's this combo for a relationship?
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    Your avatar says it all.

    I kid, I kid! I have no idea, I just couldn't resist the setup, like a slow pitch right over the plate. Sorry (I'm not really sorry).
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    Assuming you mean them to the extremes I doubt it's such a great combination.

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    I'd assume Whimsical means two relatively healthy people.

    I've never seen an INFJ and an ENFJ interact, but I don't see why they shouldn't get on just fine. They might butt heads a bit, as Js often do.

    I imagine it would be a similar relationship as the kind you would find between INTJ and ENTJ, or INFP and ENFP etc etc? In which case I'd say, sure, why not. There would be some duplication of efforts and skills but they could make a great team nonetheless.
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    I know a married couple with this combo. I found out recently that the wife is an ENFJ and the husband is an INFJ (my first IRL encounter w/one). They seem to have this best friends / soul mate thing going on.
    Often a star was waiting for you to notice it. A wave rolled toward you out of the distant past, or as you walked under an open window, a violin yielded itself to your hearing. All this was mission. But could you accomplish it? (Rilke)

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    I've seen it labeled on some sites as a good combination. Just wondering, may get into one quite soon
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    As friends, A+.

    As lovers, I'd blow my brains out.
    eNFJ 4w3 sx/so 468 tritype
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    EII-Fi subtype, Ethical/Empath, Delta/Beta
    RLUEI, Choleric/Melancholic
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    I agree with PP

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    I don't know, but I love both types!
    4w3 sx/sp? INFP, INFp

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    My INFJ friend is married to an ENFJ and says it's wonderful. However I've never met him, so couldn't observe their interactions. My mother is ENFJ and her and I never run out of things to talk about and are complementary in our ways of dealing with people (she's more forthright, I'm more behind the scenes.). I expect it probably works out pretty well.

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