So why give the illusion that something is fixable when the confrontation already implies such a thing? hm was the 'fixing' comment only in reference to past events? . . . makes sense now. Though, I cannot imagine fixing past events (understanding/clarifying, yes).
*Note: Some people use confrontations as a "You're wrong, I'm right" blaming session. Technically, nothing is improved here.
"I cannot expect even my own art to provide all of the answers -- only to hope it keeps asking the right questions." -- Grace Hartigan
Despite other differences, I think INTJs and ENFPs might think along similar lines on these things. We both have Te and Fi as our judging functions. Just one of us works from introverted perceiving and the other from extroverted. It sounds strange, but as an ENFP, seeing Te or Fi normally gives me comfort.
Freude, schöner Götterfunken Tochter aus Elysium, Wir betreten feuertrunken, Himmlische, dein Heiligtum! Deine Zauber binden wieder Was die Mode streng geteilt; Alle Menschen werden Brüder, Wo dein sanfter Flügel weilt.