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  • ENFJ - Always faithful

    5 7.35%
  • ENFJ - Occationally been unfaithful

    0 0%
  • ENFJ - Rarely faithful

    0 0%
  • ENFJ - Never faithful

    0 0%
  • ENFP - Always faithful

    13 19.12%
  • ENFP - Occationally been unfaithful

    6 8.82%
  • ENFP- Rarely faithful

    0 0%
  • ENFP - Never faithful

    0 0%
  • INFJ - Always faithful

    24 35.29%
  • INFJ - Occationally been unfaithful

    0 0%
  • INFJ - Rarely faithful

    0 0%
  • INFJ - Never faithful

    0 0%
  • INFP - Always faithful

    16 23.53%
  • INFP - Occationally been unfaithful

    4 5.88%
  • INFP - Rarely faithful

    0 0%
  • INFP - Never faithful

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Thread: xNFx fidelity

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    Default xNFx fidelity

    Hi

    Ooops screwed up the other one...

    I got facinating results from the xNTx fidelity poll so thought I'd post the same thing over here...

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    ENFP.
    Always Faithful.

    Being unfaithful a fucking joke. I mean, come on. That's like asking 'would you rather have a loyal relationship or are you in it to please your hormones and could care less about maintaining a loyal relationship.' or- 'Love or Sex'. That's how I see it, at least.
    Is it that by its indefiniteness it shadows forth the heartless voids and immensities of the universe, and thus stabs us from behind with the thought of annihilation, when beholding the white depths of the milky way?

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    Quote Originally Posted by OneWithSoul View Post
    Being unfaithful a fucking joke. I mean, come on. That's like asking 'would you rather have a loyal relationship or are you in it to please your hormones and could care less about maintaining a loyal relationship.' or- 'Love or Sex'. That's how I see it, at least.
    It's even worse than that.. being in a relationship and being unfaithful is outright duplicitous.

    It's more like "would you rather have a loyal relationship, or are you in it to please your hormones and could care less about the fact that you've just created a completely one-sided and selfish situation without regard for the person that you're supposedly with?"

    for the record.. no, I've never been cheated on.

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    I just could not put myself through that.. If it gets to the point where I would even resort to thinking about sleeping with another person, I'd basically break it off and at least give myself a few months to move on..

    Then again, I don't get myself in situations where I would be sexually 'tempted.' Could be due to my upbringing in a strict, traditional background? It also takes much more than just physical attraction to get me aroused. I need the emotional/intellectual aspect to even get there.

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    Humans should/need to learn to control their hormones and set higher standards for themselves. I think too many people are sex crazy (hense why we have so many sex-related threads :doh) and look at what really matters- having a relationship. Sex is great! But you should share it with someone you love and not let your sexual desires have control over you and the outcome of any relationship for that matter. Sex will always come to an end. You'll have good sex, and you'll have bad sex.

    Love is eternal. Love is forever blissful.
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    Always, always faithful. I don't even notice other men while in a relationship. Cheating says something to me about the priority of the relationship/partner in a person's life, i.e. it's not a priority at the moment, or in general. The gratification of the cheating partner's ego/hormones and/or quelling their insecurities usurps the importance of the relationship. Maintaining a happy, healthy relationship is one of my number one priorities, and I just see no use in being in a relationship if my heart's not completely in it. I don't see unfaithfulness as an option; I would end it long before I ever felt the need to cheat.

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    It's disgraceful and outraging to listen to people try to justufy cheating.

    I posted a thread a while back on cheating, and a few people actually tried to justify what they did.

    They said things along the lines of finding real love with someone else when they are already in a relationship.

    To me, that basically meant that you are unreliable, hardly caring, selfish, unloyal, not able to be trusted, vulnerable, etc etc etc, and it breaks my heart to think of the people that were hurt on the other end.

    There are just too many self-serving people in our world.

    Is it that by its indefiniteness it shadows forth the heartless voids and immensities of the universe, and thus stabs us from behind with the thought of annihilation, when beholding the white depths of the milky way?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lauren Ashley View Post
    Always, always faithful. I don't even notice other men while in a relationship. Cheating says something to me about the priority of the relationship/partner in a person's life, i.e. it's not a priority at the moment, or in general. The gratification of the cheating partner's ego/hormones and/or quelling their insecurities usurps the importance of the relationship. Maintaining a happy, healthy relationship is one of my number one priorities, and I just see no use in being in a relationship if my heart's not completely in it. I don't see unfaithfulness as an option; I would end it long before I ever felt the need to cheat.
    THAT!!! 100%

    There's no point in being in a relationship when your mind is wandering around. End it. You're just wasting your own and your partner's precious time when prolonging something that obviously has no future.

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    Quote Originally Posted by OneWithSoul View Post
    I posted a thread a while back on cheating, and a few people actually tried to justify what they did.

    They said things along the lines of finding real love with someone else when they are already in a relationship.
    Then why not just end it? Shouldn't be hard, considering that the person is not in love in the first place. I get that sometimes people do not wish to break up their marriage/family, but cheating sure seems like an interesting way to try to prevent that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lauren Ashley View Post
    Then why not just end it? Shouldn't be hard, considering that the person is not in love in the first place. I get that sometimes people do not wish to break up their marriage/family, but cheating sure seems like an interesting way to try to prevent that.
    THAT'S WHAT I'VE ALWAYS BEEN WONDERING.

    It's boggled my mind for ages! I simply cannot find out why it wouldn't kill these people to just finish one book before they start another. It would save so much potential heart ache (even though it would still hurt) and trust/loyalty issues.
    Is it that by its indefiniteness it shadows forth the heartless voids and immensities of the universe, and thus stabs us from behind with the thought of annihilation, when beholding the white depths of the milky way?

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