Hi everyone. I would post this in whats my type but this forum seems more active lol.
so um I used to be an INFJ when i was little and somehow ive evolved into an ESFP its pretty surprising given that these 2 types are pretty dissimilar. haha. but sometimes i question my type because i still have a lot of INFJ tendencies that I dont think ever completely disappeared.
I would like to think I have a wide circle of casual friends(ESFP), but there are only a few close ones that I trust completely(INFJ). Id also like to think i can make casual friends with just about anyone, but I definitely believe trust and friendship is something that needs to be earned and not just handed out like halloween candy(unlike some of my ESFP friends)
I can definitely still hold grudges with the best of the INFJs if I find that you have wronged me in a way. but I can never hold them against friends. I dont know if this is an ESFP thing or not.
and I have a lot of perfectionist tendencies when it comes to certain things like driving cars and gaming. Of course, a lot of the time I say "screw it" I just regress back into ESFP slacker mode. all or nothing baby. lol
and of course i hate conflict like they both do. haha
thoughts/comments people?? sorry in advance for the shameless self absorbed post. haha