I'm not quite sure what this means when someone is elected to preside over something.Twisted in that she is often crossing boundaries and taking too many initiatives.
I don't know this person, so I don't know if she has legitimate self-esteem issues and won't comment on that. In my previous post I stated that many people often misinterpret ESFJs offering to help as presumptuous. What I'm suggesting to you is step back, get out of your friend group who basically confirms each others world view back to each other and see if she is truly as destructive a force as she seems.She has self esteem issues and her Fe is so out of wack that she just tries to help everyone by getting involved in their work and even taking over doing everything on her own.
Well perhaps she tried rallying everyone together and that didn't work and then she tried another method which stepped on people's toes as well. If nothing she attempts is ever right or will please everyone then what is she left to do? It seems like one group of people approve of her actions and another doesn't. Sounds like life.The feelers sympathize with her and appreciate her "motherly" nature but the thinkers get insulted and annoyed that she is violating all of our rules and making us appear incompetent.