Okay, I don't get why several people on here nitpick over SJs and ESFJs in particular. Imagine if there were no SJs...our lives would be chaotic shitboxes. I think these people are freaking AWESOME - they bring order, structure and security. They are the ones that make things happen! They are the ones that do the shitty jobs the rest of us don't want to do because we're too 'good' or 'intelligent' or 'creative' for that kind of stuff. But ironically SJs are some of the brightest people I've ever met.
I had a roomie who is ISFJ (though sometimes I think that's her shadow, but I don't know). You could literally draw a line through our room. One side was hers and one was mine. Mine was perfectly organized, spartan, clean, bed always made. Desk always clear. Hers was full of piles of papers, clothes drying, bed messed up, etc. But it was cool because we RESPECTED each other. And she was very industrious, extremely hard-working, clever, bright, and good at almost everything. We had awesome discussions. She asked me about dealing with people and getting ideas; I asked her about various things. We hung out together and had the best fun. Alas, we were both pretty seclusive at that time, but we stuck together amid the stupidity and chaos and lack of moral foundation around us. And no matter what mistakes we made, we stuck to each other and were awesome friends. To this day, we still are.
This wonderful SJ has made my life a better place. And I want to say how much I love you guys, and don't listen to these other people ratting on you, because they have probably (alas) only seen NEGATIVE examples of UNHEALTHY SJs. Healthy, balanced SJs like my roommate and friend are absolutely wonderful individuals.
My grandmother, as annoying as she can be sometimes (God bless her), without her I wouldn't be here today. She took me on as her own daughter although we aren't even blood related. She was retired, could have had fun and whatever, but she raised me and even through rough financial times always made sure all my needs were met. She really is a wonderful woman. And thank GOD she is sJ (or EnFJ not sure) because I didn't have to worry about all this crap like decorating shit and organizing parties and hosting and all that stuff I couldn't give two beans about. She bought my clothes because I am a fashion ZERO and all that good stuff. She is just - amazing.
So all you guys, stop ratting on these wonderful people. Unhealthy SPs and NTs and NFs are just as much of a pain in the ass as unhealthy SJs (perhaps even more so). Damn. Give it a rest.