Hmmm.... I'm definitely a more mellow person after so while some soft pillow talk is great and encouraged, no huge discoveries should be shared with me at the time. I'm looking to just enjoy some silence together, look into the person's eyes, take in what we just did and slowly drift off to sleep. That's pretty close to perfect to me.
In the morning, I'll make breakfast and am happy to put the gloves back on and chatter away.