Yeah... this issue just lead to our first real fight, so I'm freaking out a bit right now and not sure what to do. He is saying that he thinks I'm just infatuated with him and now that I've seen this one big part of him (his negativity) this relationship isn't going to work. He's saying that I don't really know him and is essentially putting the blame on me. I'm done being defensive... I just want to come out of this with a solution and I have absolutely no clue what's going to get him out of it too.