Personally, I'm super terrified of emotions (both mine and others), so I stick to communicating as intuitively as possible. If either side can see through the clear eggshell, great. If not, I know I probably won't be comfortable with her in the long run. I am so automatically removed from my thoughts/feelings that I can imagine how someone would be completely dis/interested. Doesn't really concern me either way, really. If something clicks with a woman, it'll happen instinctively; if I feel it, I WILL know immediately and will take swift action. I work with kids, so I love people on the whole. Just spend time with them for the information mostly (and maybe a bi-monthly standaround).