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    Confidence is flirting.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sytpg View Post
    I don't believe it to be deceptive or inappropriate. I just think it's not cool if it's not honest and not forced. For me personally.


    I was more hinting how this is supposedly such a common trait for my type, and as always is not something I can relate to.
    Well, of course. The default nature of flirting is not to be manipulative unless your default view of flirting is negative to begin with.
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    I am a neurotic ENFP. I can't flirt at all.
    The MBTI types me as an INFP, however, SOCIONICS calls me an Logical Intuitive Extram (called an ENTj in our terms.)

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    Hah.. I'm really starting to get into this being an ENFP thing. I couldn't help myself this morning, I'm quite sure I got a return ping on one of my signals, a 'Hey' as I walked down the hall, my friends laughed at me afterwards.

    On a second occasion I didn't really think I was flirting at the time, but going back in my head.. I suggestively mentioned to a coworker that she should marry a Mexican (or 3, get get her house fixed up), and playfully suggest she call me on my voice mail... to check out my new message, 'cuz I nailed the new (and lengthy) company greeting.

    This is all very novel to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Qlip View Post
    Hah.. I'm really starting to get into this being an ENFP thing. I couldn't help myself this morning, I'm quite sure I got a return ping on one of my signals, a 'Hey' as I walked down the hall, my friends laughed at me afterwards.

    On a second occasion I didn't really think I was flirting at the time, but going back in my head.. I suggestively mentioned to a coworker that she should marry a Mexican (or 3, get get her house fixed up), and playfully suggest she call me on my voice mail... to check out my new message, 'cuz I nailed the new (and lengthy) company greeting.

    This is all very novel to me.


    welcome to the fold, brotha

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    Apparently people I encounter IRL find me very flirtatious. I flirt with everyone, even men sometimes, I'm just joking around, most people laugh. I don't usually do it with a goal in mind, I just think it's fun and creative. It's almost an intellectual thing with me. When I used to work in a coffee shop an old lady who constantly hit on me asked me where she could find some sugar and I pointed at myself and said "right here". She laughed and told me I made her day. But sometimes, it will make girls think I am interested in them sexually when really I just enjoy playful banter. One girl I work with was filling out some form with me, and she asked for my number. I knew she meant my employee number, but then I jokingly started listing off my actual phone number and did a "call me" mime, if you know what I mean. She turned beet red, and I assured her I was joking. It always freaks me out when people take me seriously. That's why i try to be over-the-top and cheesy, so they know there is no way I am being serious. I guess sometimes I misjudge where the line is, but walking that fine line is a part of what makes it fun.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Forever_Jung View Post
    It always freaks me out when people take me seriously.

    YES. OH MY GOD YES.

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    ^^^ This scares me a bit. But, you just gotta be yourself. I have always worried way to much about how others will interpret my actions.

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    Based on my experience. When an ENFP flirts with you by throwing massive compliments, they're just trying to be social. Not flirting to their definition (especially males).

    Though if s/he looks at you "intensely" without speaking much, I think that's when they're actually trying to flirt with you as they're trying hard to read you and wanting to get a desirable reaction from you.

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    ^^ good observation

    and..that's funny q and fj
    There can’t be any large-scale revolution until there’s a personal revolution, on an individual level. It’s got to happen inside first.
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