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    The High Priestess Amargith's Avatar
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    Starts out that way. After a while you learn to identify the look they give you. That is, if you are in fact paying attention and present in this world. Still doesn't mean you understand what you did to get that look though.
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    *hits forhead, involuntaraily completes Biax song reference*

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    Quote Originally Posted by Amargith View Post
    Starts out that way. After a while you learn to identify the look they give you. That is, if you are in fact paying attention and present in this world. Still doesn't mean you understand what you did to get that look though.
    I think that is why ENFPs end up flirting over the top.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elaur View Post
    I think that is why ENFPs end up flirting over the top.
    Completely agree. I seem to be flirting already without realizing it, I might as well a) consciously enjoy it then and b) make it clear that I'm not serious when hitting on you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Amargith View Post
    Completely agree. I seem to be flirting already without realizing it....
    Right. I think we can be clueless in this regard. Although, I do eventually become aware when some thinks I'm flirting with them. If I start getting the feeling that they're taking me seriously, I back off. Otherwise, it's a silly game. It's almost like how two NTs might shoot sarcastic or witty remarks between each other in a game of one upmanship.
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    too much flirt makes infp feel sad and betrayed :[
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    Quote Originally Posted by CzeCze View Post
    See, this is the where being a flirtatious person can backfire. If you are flirtatious most people assume that's just the way you are and does not reflect on how you feel about them.

    I think if a flirtatious person gets extra flirtatious with you that's a sign.

    Speaking for myself, I'm more direct. It's preeeeettttttttyy obvious if I'm really interested in someone. I am on it! LOL. Even though I'm not really sure what the definition or understanding of "flirting" other members are using here - basically I will make sure you know I am interested in you by taking it past flirting. Flirting is innuendo and joking and it's meaningless.

    My advice is you should never flirting seriously.

    So if I'm actually interested in you, I take you seriously? Or else I want you to take me seriously. Or both.
    Now, this is interesting. I haven't read all the way through this thread but I would say that for me, if a playful flirtatious person gets extra flirtatious, that's a definite sign...I take that to mean that the person is seriously looking to take things further. "Taking it past flirting" to me means going beyond long, lingering looks (which to me indicates serious interest, especially when it happens often--and I'm fully engaged as I'm doing it as well) and touching, for instance moving so close you are in a side=arm embrace, essentially. And someone moving up close behind you, touching your arm and hand (and you doing the same to them), and touching your legs together. And, the two of you gravitating into each other's body space frequently (much closer than just a friend would stand).

    With a friend, I've taken this to mean he was definitely seriously interested. Would any of you here consider this a definition of serious flirting?
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    If a guy is highly physically flirtatious with you he probably desires to bed you.

    I wouldn't take that too seriously.

    The kind of flirtation that I would take seriously, however, is when a guy shows interest in you by listening and responding to what you're saying.
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