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    Default Do infjs get mad when..

    You don't show up for something they invited you to, that you kind of said you were going to go to.

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    What did you miss and how big of a hole did she chew out of your ass?
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    Quote Originally Posted by INTJ123 View Post
    You don't show up for something they invited you to, that you kind of said you were going to go to.
    J types in general get very mad.

    You had best provide a good reason.
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    :steam: You broke a promise. Of course people are going to get a bit mad.

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    it wasnt a promise, just an invitation and casual yea I'll come down, then a spontaneous not showing up cause I fell asleep.

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    Quote Originally Posted by INTJ123 View Post
    You don't show up for something they invited you to, that you kind of said you were going to go to.
    Only if we showed up, waited, and you didn't come. I mean, who wouldn't be in that case?

    If you canceled before the appointed time, then we're usually fine.

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    Quote Originally Posted by INTJ123 View Post
    it wasnt a promise, just an invitation and casual yea I'll come down, then a spontaneous not showing up cause I fell asleep.
    Saying that you'll show up is a promise, at least in my book. I'd not get mad in this case, probably slightly annoyed. But if you can provide a reasonable explanation, there wouldn't be any long-term sharpening of knives

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    I think that any human being would get annoyed at this, but especially J's. My ESTJ friend... she gets really mad when someone blows her off, since she doesn't like not having a schedule. Then here the INFJs are inputting... and yeah.
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    I say go beg for forgiveness and you may get away with a smaller bite than what you would likely end up with.
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    I would say I tend to get pissed when people flake on me, but the degree of how pissed I get just varies.

    If someone does the casual thing though, if they say "I MIGHT go, I'm not sure", I personally don't count on it automatically. I won't wait around and I won't get pissed if they don't show up. When someone says "Maybe I'll go" to me, I just take that as "No, until further notice".

    It's when someone gives me a definite "Yes", doesn't show up, and doesn't let me know that I get pissed off. Even if it's a big night out, I can cope with the disappointment of being canceled on if someone has the consideration to call and say "I'm sorry, I can't make it". I might be disappointed, but not pissed off.
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