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    Quote Originally Posted by Tikka View Post
    Yeah, and then you make sure you get pregnant from him so he'll stay with you forevah.

    HAHAHAHAA, .... yiiiiiiikes.

    I just take his pants. Marry me, or NO PANTS, mister!! (That never works, of course, because I attract pervy weird NTP/STPs who'd walk outside without pants on anyway...)

    I've been distracted by tasty cookies though, so any forced marriage plans will have to wait.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Afkan View Post
    Wow, even though your friend tested closer to INTP, those interpersonal dynamics sound so much like an INFP friend of mine & I's.

    My INFP friend is very quiet around me at times. I've found that my extroversion and energy esp in groups leads to her silence later in 1 to 1 interactions. Also, I tend to wear on her, w/ my constant nags to express her feelings. I really struggle w/ her lack of facial expressions too, but she clams up when I encourage her to ...be more like me. It just isn't her.

    I continually have to fight wanting to "help" this gal "self-actualize," bc I am really trying to "make" her evolve into something completely and entirely different. She knows it, and she resists it. It really hurts her feelings.

    However, in the early stage of our friendship things went like this:

    Smooth from the beginning, warm fuzzies everywhere. A lot of supporting each other, sharing beliefs and values, wonderment and pleasure at the mutual desire to be unique and genuine.
    So what is the result for you and this INFP friendship? are you close friends or do you think it just won't work?

    Thanks I think I need to not change people more! haha

    And please explain this dark streak? I agreeeeeee. but I need to understand how you guys perceive it or manage it so I can get some good perspective and insight! :-)

    Good news Update: The INTP has made a rather noticeable effort to call and text and email. I got a sweet email and other friends noticed it too in her and say she has sent sweet emails lately. She even asked if we could go see a band together she thought we both might like (so thoughtful!). Nicely done but I am skeptical that this can be kept up...it is nice for now.
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    I've been pretty upset lately, not entirely sure why, though there are many reasons.

    Just last night, I did the "dead silence" thing. I haven't done that in a while. My stress just blew all the fuses out and there was darkness. My sister patted me a lot quietly, and attempted to carefully dig me out.

    She knew something was wrong with me before I did.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PinkPiranha View Post
    I've been pretty upset lately, not entirely sure why, though there are many reasons.

    Just last night, I did the "dead silence" thing. I haven't done that in a while. My stress just blew all the fuses out and there was darkness. My sister patted me a lot quietly, and attempted to carefully dig me out.

    She knew something was wrong with me before I did.
    In terms of needs, is it better to try to pry something upsetting out of you, or better to wait until you bring it up yourself?



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    Quote Originally Posted by JocktheMotie View Post
    In terms of needs, is it better to try to pry something upsetting out of you, or better to wait until you bring it up yourself?
    In general, it's best to let me process. My sister, the ENFP that she is, is alerted to my submergence earlier than most, and I don't resent her when she tries to see if I'm all right. Usually, she leaves me alone, or she'll just pat me and let me lay on her shoulder in silence.

    If my feelings have been mangled, it's best to not push me or I just go further underground. It's usually over matters of importance, not just a bad mood, that shut me up and take all the fire out of me. My sister gets concerned because she's aware of this.

    I attempted to be conversational, but it wasn't working. She sees through me. And darned if I can conceal myself. It's mortifying that I can't hide when something is torturing me.
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    Agreed with Pink - Let me handle it - and the silence on the shoulder/lap is exactly what I need, if anything from anyone else
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    Quote Originally Posted by Thursday View Post
    Agreed with Pink - Let me handle it - and the silence on the shoulder/lap is exactly what I need, if anything from anyone else
    Sometimes it's just too much to speak, you know?
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    Quote Originally Posted by PinkPiranha View Post
    Sometimes it's just too much to speak, you know?
    Yes - I go into "Enjoy the Silence" mode daily
    I go inside and live in the infinite volatile world of my soul
    Where all the things that are not said run free - quite humid in there
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    It's like living inside a storm.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PinkPiranha View Post
    It's like living inside a storm.
    I find it necessary
    What aboot you?
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