confession: I've never had problems with ISTJ's, and generally like working with them.
Perhaps you should join the military??? or the police academy???
I was considering military, but I don't think I'd be able to handle that kind of environment. Same goes for police. It's just not really my cup of tea.
I guess I am interesting when it comes to romantic interests. I am generally attracted to T types, I am very attracted to highly intelligent and logical people. I want someone to balance me out. I would go totally crazy with another F type I think, but I've met some Fs that I enjoy that weren't too hyper sensitive and emotional.
I never understood the appeal of another NF. We seem too similar (I'm not factoring out NFs or any type for that matter, just saying).