This thread is really amusing.
I've been biting my tongue, but I can't help but wonder if the situation was reversed, if there was an INFJ female posting about how this ENFP guy was acting towards her, what kind of responses she'd get. All we know about the situation is what findthejake has told us and I'm not trying to imply that we've been misinformed, just that the INFJ may see this situation differently.
And I have a question: What stuff did you leave? Do you absolutely need it?